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I wanted to fast forward 5 years and find myself in a happy place. In Happy Place, I would be in love with a wonderful man. I wouldn’t have to go through the awkwardness or struggle with the unknown. Well, I wasn’t in Happy Place. I was here and fear had me seeking the rock where I could stay for the rest of eternity. Online dating was not my Happy Place.
I wanted to fast forward 5 years and find myself in a happy place. In Happy Place, I would be in love with a wonderful man. I wouldn’t have to go through the awkwardness or struggle with the unknown. Well, I wasn’t in Happy Place. I was here and fear had me seeking the rock where I could stay for the rest of eternity. Online dating was not my Happy Place.
I wanted to fast forward 5 years and find myself in a happy place. In Happy Place, I would be in love with a wonderful man. I wouldn’t have to go through the awkwardness or struggle with the unknown. Well, I wasn’t in Happy Place. I was here and fear had me seeking the rock where I could stay for the rest of eternity. Online dating was not my Happy Place.
I wanted to fast forward 5 years and find myself in a happy place. In Happy Place, I would be in love with a wonderful man. I wouldn’t have to go through the awkwardness or struggle with the unknown. Well, I wasn’t in Happy Place. I was here and fear had me seeking the rock where I could stay for the rest of eternity. Online dating was not my Happy Place.
I wanted to fast forward 5 years and find myself in a happy place. In Happy Place, I would be in love with a wonderful man. I wouldn’t have to go through the awkwardness or struggle with the unknown. Well, I wasn’t in Happy Place. I was here and fear had me seeking the rock where I could stay for the rest of eternity. Online dating was not my Happy Place.
Anita Bugan shares her post divorce journal. This is the second of two episodes about online dating, in which she discovers a man who was “wearing a small knit cap (hiding a bald head perhaps?) and black rimmed glasses. And, I kid you not; behind those glasses were the gentlest, bluest eyes”
It was the beginning of November and two weeks had passed since my return from the trip to Cozumel and Key West. I was back, a new person, revived, and ready to jump into online dating again. (Note how quickly I recovered!!)
Anita’s post divorce adventures continue…
My ex-husband found his next partner the real way, well (cough, cough) when I say,”real” I imply that he met her in a three-dimensional manner, none of this two-dimensional stuff. I, however, explored online dating, a two dimensional experience, at first.
How did I, a happily (or so I foolishly thought), married woman of almost eighteen years, devoted mother of three, and dedicated career woman, get to be a forty-year-old divorced single parent? How did I end up at midlife dating? Installment two of Anita’s Adventures or her post divorce life where she is Losing Him Finding Me
September 23, 2007, a woman inside me died. September 23, 2007, I discovered that I would soon be divorced. Over the next five years I searched for the woman within. That woman… Meet Anita.